Thursday, April 22, 2010

I left the light on for you...

Hey everyone! Sorry I disappeared for a month. Had a lot going on, but I'm back! :)

Time for another one of Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop questions.

2.) Divorce Dreams…a tempting alternative? A disaster to be avoided? Ever an option? Advice? What’s your take?

This one is interesting because this is kind of what I'm going through...

Toby and I are *married* We never got legally married. But this is the closest that either of us wants.
We are also * separated* Whatever that means.

We aren't together, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed at night, but we're allowed to see other people.

I think all the time about what it would be like... not having him here all the time... not getting pissed off at all the stupid things he says... being in the arms of another...

But I'm still in love.
And it makes things terribly difficult.

I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasizing about another life.
As long as you remember "The grass isn't always greener on the other side."

Mama's Losin' It


  1. Hope things get easier for you down the line. This relationship stuff can be tough.

    Over from Mama Kat's.

  2. Yikes! That sounds horribly awkward for you...I would either want in all the way or not at all. I don't think I could handle living with Pat like that. I hope it works out for you though!!

  3. You just have to believe everything will work out the way it should, I guess. I hope that happens sooner rather than later!

  4. Ouch. Sounds so hard! I know I couldn't handle it. I hope it gets better for you.

  5. Sometimes, though, the grass is greener over there

  6. You're the only person I know with this kind of relationship. I'm very curious to understand how this works. I couldn't imagine. If My Sweetie wanted someone else in our relationship, I would hope she could help with the chores and kids. :)